Create a Not To-Do List

I did this. It was worth the effort because it showed me what activities are a waste of my time. Jim Collins wrote about this subject for USA Today back in 2003:

Each time the New Year rolls around and I sit down to do my annual resolutions, I reflect back to a lesson taught me by a remarkable teacher. In my mid-20s, I took a course on creativity and innovation from Rochelle Myers and Michael Ray at the Stanford Graduate School of Business, and I kept in touch with them after I graduated.

One day, Rochelle pointed to my ferocious work pace and said, “I notice, Jim, that you are a rather undisciplined person.”

I was stunned and confused. After all, I was the type of person who carefully laid out my BHAGs (big hairy audacious goals), top three objectives and priority activities at the start of each New Year. I prided myself on the ability to work relentlessly toward those objectives, applying the energy I’d inherited from my prairie- stock grandmother.

“Your genetic energy level enables your lack of discipline,” Rochelle continued. “Instead of leading a disciplined life, you lead a busy life.”

She then gave me what I came to call the 20-10 assignment. It goes like this: Suppose you woke up tomorrow and received two phone calls. The first phone call tells you that you have inherited $20 million, no strings attached. The second tells you that you have an incurable and terminal disease, and you have no more than 10 years to live. What would you do differently, and, in particular, what would you stop doing?

That assignment became a turning point in my life, and the “stop doing” list became an enduring cornerstone of my annual New Year resolutions — a mechanism for disciplined thought about how to allocate the most precious of all resources: time.

Full Story: Best New Year’s Resolution? A ‘Stop Doing’ List

Yeezus Taught Me

Yeezus Cover

I was in Palm Springs, California for the first weekend of Coachella. The entire Klique team was there to debut the beta version of the app. We also co-branded with REVOLT and Beats Music at two house parties. It was a good time, and we got a lot done.

Driving back Los Angeles to catch our flights took much longer than anticipated. It was stop-and-go traffic in the middle of the California dessert. Thankfully, we had a lot of music to bump. One of the albums we played from start to finish was Kanye West’s Yeezus.

The first time I listened to Yeezus, I was in an office, in front of a screen. I didn’t like the album outside of a handful of songs.

Listening to Yeezus while driving through the California desert completely changed my thoughts of the album. It felt like I was hearing a completely different album; a better album.

Here’s the takeaway: A music experience is one part music quality and one personal context. It’s about how good the music is, and also what setting you are in when you hear it.

The Handwritten Birthday Card

A few weeks ago I went to pick up a birthday card for a family member. While I was looking through the birthday cards at my local Duane Reade, I have some thoughts that I want to share with you. I’m going to let this post be the spark of some future ideating, and I encourage everyone to respond to my prompt at the end.